The growing popularity of the Internet has created a business boom for dating services. Companies such as Friend Finder have huge member databases that are growing daily, making it easy to find people who share the same interests. For busy professionals online dating services are an ideal solution to meeting new people.

So, how do you stay safe in the online dating scene? If you meet somebody on FriendFinder, and have only talked by email or instant messenger, you do not know if the person is safe. Many experts say that if you follow some common sense guidelines your online dating experience can be a safe and positive one. There are six basic guidelines to keep in mind when jumping into online dating.

First, you should always make the arrangements to meet your date. Don’t let your date pick you up at home or know your home address. This applies to both the first date and subsequent dates if you’re unsure of your interest in the person. You should also only give out your cell phone number, and not your home landline number which can be traced to your address. Don't worry about anyone taking offense; this is your personal safety at stake and be very firm about this.

Next, you should always meet in a public place with large groups of people nearby. You have to meet in public places, such as concerts, cafes, or movies, with lots of people. Never meet in a secluded area or travel to one while on your first date. If possible, try to arrange to bring friends along as a double date. This may seem awkward on a first date but it's important if you want stay safe in the online dating scene.

Next, avoid alcohol on your first date. It can impair your judgment or you can let your guard down. If you choose to drink, try to keep it to a minimum.

Another good idea is to pay half the bill on your first date. Doing so will not make your date feel that you’re obligated to have a second date in the event you aren’t interested. Don’t worry about offending and stand your ground.

Make sure that you tell a friend of yours that you are going on a date. Have the friend call you to make sure you arrived home safely. Also, you could end your date by meeting up with friends.

Finally, the most important safety advice is to trust your own judgement. If something doesn’t feel right, it probably isn’t. Don’t be afraid to end the date early if you feel uneasy with the person for any reason. Even though you may have talked with the person a lot by email, sometimes you can only pick up that something is not right with that person when you talk to him/her in person. If you trust your judgment and use common sense, you will have a safe and great date.